str8, no chaser

i'm confused. can someone explain to me the difference between gay and straight in today's world? it used to be, in the dark ages that i grew up in, that there was a real difference between the two. gay men were usually more sensitive, more artistic, you know..just superior human beings. straight men belched and farted, got into fights and talked a lot about pussy. the BIG difference, the huge CHASM of difference, was dick. straight men didn't think about dick, they didn't suck dick and they SURE never got fucked in the ass by dick...hell, up until the late 60's, straight men didn't even realize that they had an asshole.
anyway, nowadays there is all sorts of "str8 guy porn", straight men being fucked for the first time, straight men sucking cock, straight men being tricked into gay sex, "gay for pay" straight porn stars. if you look at a selection of the hookup ads available in various cities, a lot of guys are advertising for "straight" guys only. the close second to that category is "married guys".
maybe i'm old fashioned (probably) or just naive (Naaahh....) but of some guy has a 12 dick a week habit, whether he's married or not, i think he's gay. if he considers himself straight but can't wait to have another guy suck his dick, sorry, he's gay.
i just don't get it. men who like cock are gay, end of story. i don't think you can be "a little bit gay" anymore than you can be "a little bit pregnant".
have the parameters of behavior changed that much in my lifetime? was there some cultural shift that i slept through?
how do you define gay or straight if behavior isn't the determinant, anymore?
By rae121452 | 05/09/2012 03:21 PM | 4 comments
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  • I've never believed in bisexuality. I was married to a woman for over ten years and fathered two children. Why? Because it was, as I was taught, what one must do. Queer was sick and dirty. So was being married to a woman while having gay desires classify me as bisexual? Nope! I was gay but too afraid to be whom I was born to be.

    Young "straight" men today think that so long as they can get it up for pussy, they can suck dick too and not be classified as gay. Let's face it, young men can get it up for just about any situation. Besides isn't it cool to be sexually flexible?

    I believe that there are genuinely "straight" people of both sexes. There are truly gay people of both sexes. But bisexual? They just haven't found the courage to be gay.
    hisbiguy 05/10/2012 07:14 PM
  • the str8 guy porn is just porn with a catchy name, there are no straight men involved
    think of the term "fair and balanced"
    it's just something they say, there is no truth behind it

    I think the vast majority of folks are actually bisexual
    whether they act on those urges or not
    I think of myself as gay, but I see a pretty girl on tv sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I was on the other side of the fence
    but then I think of all the hot men here and the girl is forgotten rather quickly
    goodgrief 05/10/2012 10:15 AM
  • If you're a man and have sex with another man you're not straight, you are either bi-sexual or homosexual. If you're gay and refer to yourself as straight acting you're an idiot. Why not refer to yourself as masculine and be proud to be a gay man.
    MascBottomPig 05/10/2012 08:29 AM
  • Like one of my boyfriends said to me a million years ago, 'IF MY WIFE HAD A COCK, I WOULDN'T HAVE TO DO THIS" I never met a straight man that didn't like his dick sucked and a few fingers up his ass.
    fenwaydav 05/09/2012 08:27 PM