DO LOOKS MATTER?

i'm a totally right brain person, meaning i'm more visually oriented. so here's my conundrum...

the last 2 guys i was involved with for any length of time had fantastic bodies. toned, great asses, big dicks. they both loved to be fucked and said that i gave them exactly what they were looking for. the sex for me went from okay to so-so. HOWEVER, the first was a married guy who'd have remarse every time i fucked him and would break it off later that day, only to contact me a few days later wanting to get together again. i finally dumped him because i couldn't handle the drama.
the second one was also married. i eventually found out he is a pathological liar. he is also a control freak and self centered. i dumped him, again because of the drama.
so, not too long ago i made an internet hookup. the guy sent me a face pic, he looked interesting, not a beauty by any stretch. when i got to his place it was obvious that the picture was an old one. i can get over that. but, when he took off his clothes, his body was literally a disaster area. i mean, by no one's standard would this guy be sexy or attractive. he had a nice personality, tho, and i figured what the hell, a blowjob is a blowjob. well, it turned out he was about the 2nd best cocksucker i ever met in my life. not only that, he was unapologettically freaky in a lot of the ways i am. in other words, i had a fantastic time. so now, i'm seeing him on a pretty regular basis. he hasn't gotten more attractive and his body is still a disaster but i'm getting some of the best sex i've ever gotten
anybody else ever have a similar experience?