Sexy?

What do you find sexy in a Man/ Woman?
Is it there lips , eyes , ass , chest , there smile.
just trying to understand some of my friends, you know getting to know them better.
For me " A man with muscular legs, tattoos and smile.....

So again what do you find SEXY....


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  • If I were to be in search of a "lover" or an LTR, then the list is fairly sensible.

    But for pure sex, there is absolutely nothing quite like a really beefy set of pecs with some hair that leads to a happy trail AND some very well developed biceps. And a guy who looks really good in a jock strap is always appreciated.
    ilikemeninjocks 04/30/2012 06:32 PM
  • I guess I start the all-embracing definition first and work my way to the specific:

    A Man who is physically and mentally mature,
    who still get pumped by physical or mental challenges,
    who respect himself physically and in his outlook,
    This kind of man generally has a great body in his 70s and above,
    and probably found his best tactic to keep himself up while gravity is dropping things down,
    and both in the mental and the physical will most probably wear out way before he rusts out.

    And the specifics:
    A clean overall appearance with nothing to distract my gaze from his natural male shape and texture.
    The height doesn't matter so long as it is a masculine proportion.
    The hair or the lack of it on his head, body or face doesn't matter if it's well cared for.
    The color of his eyes doesn't matter so long as he wants to look in mine
    And every part of his body wanting to be with every part of mine
    And a mind that can start me dripping with just one right word.

    Well, that's what gets me hard.
    MachineToole 04/28/2012 10:37 PM
  • Physically, I like imperfect guys. Not the extremes of imperfection, but the sometimes rugged effects of having lived a life attracts me. I like bellies, not six-packs. I actually have rejected guys who are so perfect physically that they feel perfectly right to insist that I will ". . . LOVE getting it on" with them. That over-confidence is off-putting to me. Beyond physical characteristics, I love guys who are mellow, down to earth and intelligent - who can carry on a fun conversation, especially with humor, including some self-deprecation at times. OK, all you imperfect humorous guys, here I am!!
    rjzip 04/28/2012 09:09 PM
  • as i was talking to another guy the other night... i don't think the adage about not judging a book by its cover is complete... i think the saying should be "don't judge a book by its cover alone..."

    physically, i tend to fall for guys older than me who also tend to be more stocky... this isn't just stocky for the sake of being stocky but stocky in the right way... i esp love it when a guy was a "football star" in earlier years but developed a layer of cushion for me to sleep on at night... throw in a thin layer of fur and i'll make myself ready in 2 seconds flat...

    facially, i like a little whisker action... but to top it all off with regard to physical features is the eyes... whether it be inviting, seductive, or straight up "come hither" eyes are what draws me most to a guy's face...

    having said that, all of the above can be present in a guy, but if it comes with a lack of direction / self-assertion, then all is for naught... i like a guy who as spiritwalker says, has confidence in his own self and respectful of others (esp a potential mate)... i'd take a 6 or 7 in the physical department over a 9 or 10 "perfect male specimen" who happens to be a total prick...
    OCalig 04/28/2012 09:00 PM
  • Quiet confidence, masculine, and muscular.
    Spiritwalker 04/28/2012 06:14 PM
  • Sexy is a nice guy
    VirginiaBear69 04/28/2012 05:48 PM
  • I melt when I see or feel...

    - the warmth of a beautiful smile

    - the bulge in a guys' jeans

    - the outline of a sweet ass as he passes by

    - the smell of a man

    - the look of "gentle eyes"

    - the feel of muscles

    sigh....
    everysooften 04/28/2012 02:32 AM