HATING should have been the 11th Commandment

I know everyone has heard the word HATER before.
yeah yeah..somebody who cant stand to see you do well.. hate your lifestyle, your choices, your friends, your posessions.. just harbor hate in thier heart to your very existence.
and at the same TIME.. treat you so nicely in your face with the most convincing adorable smile. How in the world is that possible. I mean we all have a smidgeon of acting abilities.lol Some more than others and the ones who are REAL WELL at doing it..are probably a celebrity or close to it..lol
But we must be dumb or something or maybe we are just blind to certain things. most of us i'm sure had to end friendships at one time or another due to someone doing something horrible behind your back and it caught up with them and u found out they were behind it. It could be job related or even right in your family..
happens alot especially when a family member becomes sick and eventually dies.. u see the demons come out. I'm warning you now, if someone dies in your immediate family..u make sure u got some holy water around or some blessed oil..lol SO YOU CAN FLASH IT AT THE DEMONS that be coming your way. lol The real person comes out and you see how much they disliked you all these years..
But on the serious tip, WHY?
You spend HARD, HARD..LONNNNNG years preparing yourself, studying..FALLING DOWN AND MESSING UP.. just to learn one little point. YOU GET UP and start again..gradually getting better at what you do..and u stay PERSISTANT until you've mastered each and every step and eventually rose to be something great in your life...
ONLY JUST to find someone or more than one..who wants what you got.. what you achieved... secretly.. and will do what whatever they go to do...to snatch the title and experience. I would love to be fly on the walls of thier mind to see what they are thinking....
HOW DARE THEY!!!!!!!
I thought long and hard on this almost to tears. Because it wasnt easssyyy getting to where I got. and i'm sure you can attest to the same. Thats why I love to hear from people who are doing well in life and achieved it thru hard work. THEY KNOW what it means to be successful and they understand what it takes. It ISNT GIVEN TO YOU. But rather YOU are BLESSED with it.
SO..take a hard look at the your circle of friends and make sure they really are your friends. Get to know some of their friends as well. True friends dont hide things.
1. If you find yourself finding information out about your friend thats kind of trifling and u had no idea about it from them.. you need to watch and keep your ears open.
2. If you see that your friends call you to hang out or to chill with them anywhere.. and you always find a way to do it..but when you ask them to do the same, there's an excuse of some sort.. watch em.
3. If you are in trouble via short on finances and need a $20 or $50 to hold you or need a lift due to car problems or some small kind hearted help is needed and all they can say is 'Oh my..i'm so sorry.. i hope things get better for you..." WATCH EM..
4. If you are blessed to go from carless to a CAR or land a boyfriend or girlfriend that's hotter than theirs lol.. or if you got your credit up to par and moved from apt to a condo or better yet house..lol and you find your so called friends not as happy as they used to be..or starts to become unavailable or better yet.. ARGUE YOU DOWN..to watch yourself instead of being happy for you and helping you celebrate the blessings. WATCH THEM.. these are pure signs of Hatery. the signs i myself fell prey to in the past.. and whats sad is that they come in all sizes and shapes..and they are able to change form..like viruses.
AND WHEN YOU COME TO FIND OUT THEY BEEN HATING ALL THIS TIME AND HAVNT REALLY BEEN A FRIEND TO YOU...JUST A LEECH.. OR MAYBE A FAKE FBI AGENT TRYING TO SPY ON YOU AND FIGURE OUT HOW U GOT YOURS...
YOU LET THEM HAVE IT REAL GOOD..
and let them know success doesnt come cheap..