Fakes and Flakes

I have always wondered why there are so many men who come to these sites and lie about themselves in the most incredible ways. They usually mention that they are so successful and busy and have so many men after them , and yet they are online nearly all the day long, guess they aren't so successful after all, especially when they come from other sites and tell different lies there and come and go under different names, some as many as 8 . Could be because they have already been banned from other sites!!!!! At any rate, the purpose of these sites is to meet and explore new male connections and most, thankfully are rather favorable and turn out to be great guys, and we here at DaddyDater have the webmaster to thank for that, for running this site and I guess the bad apples will fall by the way and be dispersed from here the same as they were from other sites, Have fun, guys, be aware of anyone who is always talking about how great they are, they are most likely not. Praise and adulation comes from others and not one's self. Be a good friend and you will make one!


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  • Very interesting there bigman and I agree that whether someone has anything or not , it is vulgar to say that you do, insecure people are pitiable and do deserve some empathy but outright liars are the ones, one in particular , that I was talking about. Trust your gut, buddy and have fun out here! Take good care!
    VirginiaBear69 02/05/2009 06:20 PM
  • Total agreement that praise comes from others - not one's self. Bragging is a bug turnoff for me too. False humility turns me off also. Little is as attractive on any man as open and sincere honesty. Not too much and not too little - just right.

    Yet, in our profiles we do have to say something about ourselves - what interests us, what we are doing here anyway. I just hope my profile does not come off as bragging. I don't think so, but one never knows. I also have profiles up in two other sites. Different men go to different sites ... I want to be found! LOL

    Good blog posting! Nice to see you writing.
    MasterSinatas 02/05/2009 06:16 PM
  • You made some interesting statements....and I started to think, which is good for me! LOL...I guess I have come to realize...that typically I do not believe anything anyone says on a computer much at all...I usually am the same way when i meet someone in a bar also...which does not happen often....My point is this....people that brag, etc...damn, for me, it is just their insecurity....and even if they are successful..like financially, etc...it is still a big turn off...A quick story...I met a fellow in a bar restaurant here in south Florida...we talked, etc....he seemed nice..I went to his place...which was pretty nice...but he made a big deal out of telling me everything , showing me everything. Finally, he showed me his closet..yes, his closet, which was the size of my kitchen..honest, it was huge.and he had an automated system of hangers...you know, you flip a switch..like the dry cleaning places and it starts moving, etc..Yeah, he had one...and there were hundreds and I mean hundreds of shirts, and pants, etc....another room about 10 x 12..had nothing but shoe racks, just like a shoe store. Finally, after seeing this I told him, I have to go...he asked me why....I just said..."You got too much stuff"....and I left. My point is...I can usually sense either on line or in person...how valid a person is.....and if they have multiple screen names...hell, I don't pay that much attention..I wont care for them under any screen name.....just my two cents worth....Jim
    bigman59 02/05/2009 05:23 PM