The Fearsome Threesome
My partner and I get discouraged with the lack of guys who would be willing to try a threesome. The most discouraging situation is finding a guy who is interested, only for him to back out at the last moment. I can understand a guy being hesitant to turn himself over to two other men. It is a scary situation that I would hesitate to subject myself to. We try to assure a newcomer that we pose no threat. Then there is the question: What do three guys do together? I'll give you the moment to imagine. Cocks, balls, taints, assholes, mouths, tongues. You do the math! And if you are a daddy with a taste for young flesh, and he is a Daddy admirer. . . ? What more need I say? What is your experience and your personal thought?
Me and my partner have had some great three-ways. We both prefer bottom but can be versatile. The "third" is usually more of a top, interested in topping both of us and comfortable with the situation. We are always willing to flip roles and make sure the third is satisfied too. We play safe and keep it clean to avoid too many breaks in the action. When it's over we let the guy know we had a great time. A few of my of friends like to voyeur and "catch me in the act" with their partner or another friend. I was surprised how being watched ramped up the intensity of the sex.
Personally I like threesomes. It is very exciting when you have two other men to play with. Wayne
have only had one experience and that was a failure because the two hosts were only interested in themselves...so got up and left...not detrred by that event and am looking engage with others in coming weeks.
To make the 3rd guy feel at ease, I always tell them that we want require them to do anything they feel uncomfortable about doing. Discuss upfront what the plans are before we are in bed together. We tell the 3rd guy, no BB only safe sex. Haven't had a problem with guys not showing up.
Have the same problem here. They always back out.