Not stupid... but almost imaginary. My experience is that "friends" rarely are playful. Sure, theew are "fuck buddies" or more likely "tricks" I might see more than a few times, but they aren't really friends -- just people who want to fuck/suck after a simple phone call.
"Friends", people with whom I socialize, go to dinner, invite to parties, etc just aren't sexual playmates. Sure, we talk dirty and maybe a touch or grab at a pool party, but never a nice suck or fuck.
I'm not saying it is right or wrong. And maybe it is just me and my circle of friends. But that's just the way I've seen it for the last 20 years.
"Friends", people with whom I socialize, go to dinner, invite to parties, etc just aren't sexual playmates. Sure, we talk dirty and maybe a touch or grab at a pool party, but never a nice suck or fuck.
I'm not saying it is right or wrong. And maybe it is just me and my circle of friends. But that's just the way I've seen it for the last 20 years.