Are Oral-Only Guys Marginalized in the LGBT Community?

Hey....I had anal sex, mostly as a top and only once as a bottom, when I was in my 20's. Frankly I only did it to please my partners as it wasn't my preference. I got to the stage where someone called me an, "Oral Cock Worshiper" and the moniker stuck with me. That is what I self-identify with as a sexual passion and priority. I started cock at (*Date deleted. no underage stories here) and embraced the fact that I am a cocksucker by the time I turned 30. I've always felt this sort of gay "lite" feel about not doing anal and have been told that it's because I'm a control freak (huh?). Anyway, what's your take on the whole discussion about oral vs. anal and those of us who simply aren't into sodomy (as the Christian right and GOP candidates might say....)?

By Letmeworshipit | 11/09/2015 08:51 PM | 8 comments

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I get alot of pressure to do anal. I don't feel great up my ass and I have difficulty humping an ass unless it is as easily found as a vagina.
So oral give and take I get more out of it. I'm only 23.

bigntall4all 02/13/2016 08:15 AM

I'm strickly oral now and I'm so glad to see I am not the only one.

tdrit25 12/29/2015 11:25 AM

Nice to see that I am not the only "Oral Cock Worshipper" on this site! Most gay men seem to think that anal is a mandatory part of being gay but I have never been into it. I do enjoy kissing, cuddling and body contact but have not enjoyed anal on the very few occasions that I tried it. Sadly, being an old cocksucker does severely limit the number of guys that want to date me. I am most attracted to younger (18-25yo) smaller, slender and smooth guys (twinks). Seems like most of the twinks that are into older guys are bottoms. I wish I could find one that just loves to have his cock serviced orally, that would be the perfect guy for me to marry!

gm4yngr 12/05/2015 03:55 AM

I'm not sure I've given it much thought. It certainly has cut down on my options in terms of who I can play with. Lots of guys will ask me, "Oral only, really"? And I explain that I just am not into anal. I LOVE worshipping a HOT COCK with my throat. There is NOTHING like it. I understand it cuts down the available men to play with, but for me...online play is about having FUN and I DO NOT want anyone coming over and leaving disappointed because they didn't get me to GIVE IN. I'm very clear that it WILL NOT HAPPEN. It certainly weeds out the men who want more. In terms of the "control freak" comment, I must admit sometimes I wonder if that is part of my reluctance. That comment has been made to me as well. I'm not sure I can honestly speak to how true that is. Obviously, I see my life from my perspective. They say control freak, I say, I know what I like! LOL I do know this, part of why I simply stick to oral is because, in my mind, I feel like I'm being slightly safer.

oraleric 11/13/2015 07:29 AM

Hey man its not up to others its up to you and what you feel and think.Why do people go around planning their lives on what others think or believe?Why don't people do what they feel and believe?I love anal sex and I love sucking cock.When people base or worrey what others think,then you can't be happy and you seek others approval--why?

countrylove 11/12/2015 09:26 PM

i don't think oral men marginalized.. they are hot fun..

BDGF 11/11/2015 03:35 PM

You are not alone. I feel the same way, not big into anal either but love oral. I do think we are somewhat marginalized, many guys need the anal component.

uclibear 11/11/2015 11:11 AM

Whatever turns you on, guy. I don't think oral specialists are ostracized. Now, you may be turned down by guys who want more, and I certainly hope you don't get guys into bed before you tell them your limits. But if you're upfront about it, no problem.

Also, gay people, like most other folks, don't generally in a social setting sit around talking about what they do or don't do in bed. (Well, some do, but that's another topic ...) I can't see any reason why you would be marginalized or blacklisted, or whatever you want to call it, by the LGBT community. There are lots of things to talk about besides how you don't like a cock in your ass, or your cock in one!

BearinFW 11/11/2015 12:56 AM