Just thinking out loud
The problem isn't that all the "good ones" are so far away, unless you live in BFE. I've found a few good ones here and there, but I guess it depends on how you define good ones. The one who pops after 5 or10 minutes is definitely not a good one. I have standards--yes, I do--but the weeding out process IS kind of fun. Guess I'm just incurably optimistic--as well as incurably horny. A good way to be as I see it.