Hey guys,
Two days ago I had sex with this particular friend for the first time. It was a very interesting experience to say the least. I guess because of the nature of our relationship, what we did should be called fucking but it sure felt like more than that.
To explain myself, he is a great friend and a great guy. He has a partner of five plus years (who, by the way, signed off on the action) who is a great guy too and they have the coolest, smartest five year old son you can imagine. I consider them family and would do anything for them. Due to these factors I was surprised it happened but in hindsight I did see subtle hints pointing to it.
We have always been attracted to each other but I have always respected the fact he was partnered and I never wanted do to anything to adversely effect his family. Sure we've flirted with each other but it was simply busting each other's chops. Then Wednesday night happened.
We started off scrapping paint from the bathroom ceiling and I admit, the lightweight shorts he had on definitely got my attention. Then he moved to an area where he had to use a step ladder and I'll give you one guess what was now exactly at face level. I told him something to the effect he was a tease and his reply was: "I'm not teasing." That's when I noticed the beginning stages of a hard on rising in his shorts.
So a few unsure what to do moments later, I asked him "should we be doing this?" He said his partner (who was at work) knew I was coming by that night and it was okay if he wanted to play with me. Somehow his cock ended up in my mouth and shortly afterwards we moved to his room. The next time we looked up, three hours had past.
It was hot, steamy, passionate. It was soft, romantic, cuddly. It was some of the best sex I've had in a long time. I would have thought if we ever played with each other it would be a loud, rip our clothes off, screaming and grunting cumshot kind of thing. And while we were cognizant of the five year old sleeping down the hall and while there was plenty of moaning and groaning going on, however it was nothing like I ever would have guessed.
So after the deed was done and neither of us could shoot another drop, I took a quick shower and headed home. We parted with a mutual agreement that while this was a new aspect of our friendship, it would not be an expectation as neither of us wanted to drastically alter our relationship. And of course there's his family to consider. There is absolutely no weirdness with his partner who simply laughed and called us horny teenagers. So now I'm like...Hmmm....
I'm not in love with him, though of course I do love him. I KNOW he's not in love with me. That's why its such a weird feeling. I thought you had to be in love with someone to have that kind of sex. I guess a true connection is all that's needed.
I can't wait to see any comment that this my generate. Thanks for reading guys!
Okay, that was weird.....
Love, lust, sex, trust, intimacy, friendship, devotion and dozens of words partially describe what is going on and what is missing. Be very clear. Discuss your feelings and attitudes with your buddy and his partner. If you can't discuss this with his partner, you need to seriously examine your underlying motives.