From a compliment to am Insult

I was asked by my best friend to show this...I was treated very poorly by an individual that I will make nameless...It was a suprise to me to see that people like this still exist on here...but the people who know me know very different...I only changed names not the conversation. Did I do somthing wrong? I was just being kind to another person or so I thought. Start from the bottom up.

You wrote on 08/22/2010 at 12:51 PM

Wow!!! this is very telling of a person...I am not going to stoop my seof to your level...and nor have you done anything but make me laugh...you do not know anything about me as a person or my relationship. I felt that ther might be a shred of decency with in you...but _____ was right...I am healthier and Happier in my life, relationship and friendships than I could ever be. and I do not have to defend this, especially to a person as insulting as you. I am proud of who i am and what I do...and you will never know that. You are very cold and unfriendly...and no I will not nor ever wish ill upon you...but I do know what you put out will come back to you times 3...I am soending this weekend with my husband and he is right beside me shaking his head...I had breakfast with a friend to help him prepare for a date he is nervous about...my partner was tired adn did not sleep well told me to go with out him. part of marriage give and take...and balance...somthing I hope you will learn some day. Its funny...you make these sumerizations and not know me yet very telling it what you write...I feel sorry you must have been burned in some way or hurt in a distrusting relationship, but not every married person you meet is them. What ever hurt you must have been bad. I only will wish you well and that you learn and recover from what ever has made you this bitter...especially to a stranger.

-He wrote- wrote on 08/22/2010 at 11:24 AM

So sad.......you can't make friends any other way? except for a porn site......how shallow.....your going out to breakfast.....what about your husband...isn't it the weekend...time to spend it with him don't you think???? I generalize you because that is where you belong.....so buddy.....stay off the porn sites and spend more time in the gym as well as with your husband.....you'll be healthier all around.......

You wrote on 08/22/2010 at 08:00 AM

What! I came on here to make friends and I came on here when Marc invited me the webmaster! I made two of the best friends I could have ever asked for feel free to ask them _________ and _________. I connect better with older men because people my age are after Sex 24/7 and that is not who I am. My partner views this with me and knows each person I speak with as I do with his friends on Recon. What is really sad is that you have not gotten past sex enough to see that people sometimes just want to be friendly and kind. My husband are probably the most healthy couple you could find...and we work at it...because you have to on a daily basis. No i dont need sites like this but I reccomend it to people and help advertise it so it can stay in exsistence. You generalize me in this catagorey of men and you dont even know me...that is truely sad, but it says a lot about you. I dont go out and party or drink so for me to make a friend in a safe environment is hard. and this is my out let. Not manhunt or gay.com or adult friend finder...here a safe friendly environment. Try looking more at the opportunity of friends then getting laid. Now I am going to have breakfast with Editor6660 a real friend and person, my best friend, who i met on here and we are just that friends. Life is about opportunity dont let it pass you by...its too short to be grumpy and negative...go with it...sorry if I disapointed you, but I dont have the issue here, I dont know what made you so negotive to me or what you have been through...but I do hope you find clarity.

-He wrote- wrote on 08/22/2010 at 07:24 AM

I did read it......now stay married.....you don't (supposedly) need sites like this......so many of you guys like you on this site......so sad

You wrote on 08/22/2010 at 07:10 AM

Wow!!! bad morning! what a way to take a compliment. Did I ask you to Play? Did I proposition you? It was an observation thats all. I am married to a wonderful man yes, but not dead, I can still look and compliment. Not everyone is chasing you. Try reading my profile, or better yet don't I prefer to talk to people who are friendly. Sorry I was being kind it won't happen again.

-He wrote- wrote on 08/22/2010 at 07:03 AM

thanks...but don't play with boyz with partners......I am better than a 3rd wheel.......try having sex with your partner.....

You wrote on 08/22/2010 at 06:56 AM

You area beautiful Daddy!


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  • It looks to me as if both of you were preaching past each other. In a similar situation, simply say that you indeed are happily married, here seeking friends, and wish him a good day. (period) Telling someone off feels good at times, but is a useless exercise.

    Why let such a little thing matter? Let it go and do not engage others who sit in ignorant judgement of you.
    MasterSinatas 11/15/2010 05:09 AM
  • Yeah, I experience the EXACT same person. He is a real jerk. He is one of the very few I've had to block on here.
    kelleysiland 08/25/2010 10:50 AM
  • some people just do not know how to take a compliment or even give one. Mose of these guys are cheeters and are looking for sex so he just assumed you wanted it too. Iwould just said good by and left it alone.
    eskay 08/24/2010 11:37 PM
  • Let it go! There are assholes on every site, bullies and sociopaths, Ignore them!
    VirginiaBear69 08/24/2010 07:14 PM
  • I wish you would have put his id name in here. I think I talked to the same a** h*** .......You are right if you don't have anything good to say don't say it at all. Keep the jerks off the site. Hope that Marc removed him from the site.
    mw4u2 08/23/2010 07:48 AM
  • I AM SO SORRY THAT SOMEBODY WOULD BE THAT RUDE TO YOU WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING YOU. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR 12 YEARS. I CANT FIND ANY FRIENDS, OR A PARTNER FOR THAT FACT, I WENT THROUGH AN AWFUL RELATIONSHIP. THE SAME DAY I LEFT HIM BECAUSE HE WAS CHEATING AND LIEING TO ME I LOST EVERYTHING IN AN F3 TORNADO. THE WHOLE SITUATION DIDNT MAKE ME BITTER AT ALL, I JUST PICKED UP AND MOVED ON. I WILL TELL YOU NOT TO WORRY YOU WILL FIND NICE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT WANT TO BE FRIENDS, AND YOU ARE VERY LUCKY TO HAVE A GOOD PARTNER. YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.......DONNY
    Donny1976 08/23/2010 03:14 AM
  • it is sad someone would go off at you with such little knowledge of you - nice profile - my best to you and yor partner - if you have room for one more friend - let me know - howie
    howie 08/22/2010 05:24 PM