at frist we all have the thing you think about and like for it to be the best and then you think more and more then you find the guy you think that will make it be all good . the dominant and sub can be good if you'd like it. dominant top alot of the time not think how the feelings the best for the frist time i think not a dom and sub thing
you find a nice caring compassionte romantic more feeling go a long way
the frist guy i was with was caring nice compassionte romantic married and no sex i was 12yr at the time took thing slow and love it sucking at frist and then move on from there the best time of my life and thank him for that so the thing is not to think that all men are the same