be honest and up front with people

i make it known that i am schizophrenic, yes i lose alot of friends, and potential date probably, when i tell someone i explain i am non violent actually the opposite , i get nervous and have anxiety attacks in public, i am also honest about suffering from depression, i have good days and i have off days. i have high blood pressure.
i am an open book about my health i was just tested in june for hiv, hepatitis a,b, and c, and syphilis it all came back negative.
thing is i met and guy and we went out on a date, met a few days later for a second date, we made out and did some heavy petting that was the extent of it.
then last night he messages me and lets he know he has hepatitis c, he was at my house earlier and saw my pills, i had them sitting out because i called in a few refills, he commented on them and i asked him do you want me to tell you what each one is for? and he said no. then questions me on my status after i told him i was clean and questions me as to why i take all the meds like i explained to him 3 are for blood pressure, one for acid reflux, one for cholesterol, one for the schizophrenia, and one for the depression.
all im trying to say is be honest and up front
By roync | 07/08/2014 08:57 AM | 3 comments
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  • Hey no biggie, I am bipolar myself and honest about it. The reality is the more we educate others as to mental illness and the more they learn, the less afraid they are generally. We educate others as to what it means and who we are. I really appreciate your honesty kiddo, you are a great guy and I am glad to have you as a buddy here! BIG HUGS...
    bearyhot40 08/14/2014 07:45 PM
  • I was just tested for all STDs and passed, but it's always a tense time waiting for results. They took swabs from my anus and cheek. Why is it always a 20-something woman who does this? Anyway, they also took blood and urine. Thorough testing all for $5 at the County Health Dept. I use the county because they are so inexpensive and I think society owes us gays/bis for all the shit we have had to put up with over all these years. I test every 6 months. I have a buddy who did the HIV test he purchased at the drug store. Cost him $35 just to get that one test. Well, for privacy's sake and to get results quickly, I guess that option is nice. Hey, isn't there now a cure for Hep C? I Googled it and found SOVALDI is a treatment that cures 9 out of 10 cases. Roync, maybe you could give your date a heads up about this and have him disease free and loving you for the help . . . and all the other nice things you can do for him. MMMmmm

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    rjzip 07/08/2014 12:35 PM
  • Sometimes honesty is the best policy, sometimes a few secrets are better. You have to do what's right for you. You have made it clear before that sexually it may take a while before you get into more than just lying around petting. As a slut bottom, I like to get right to action. Have met some guys who want to do a little and talk a lot. I like to do a lot and talk very little. I don't display my medications, because if we aren't getting married, it's none of your business.
    fenwaydav 07/08/2014 11:36 AM