What are your biggest turnoffs?

This weeks poll is about what turns you off when you meet someone for the first time. Some meet guys for a date and some just for sex hookup. But in either case what are some of your biggest turnoffs?
I might learn something here ;)

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By Marc | 01/28/2011 12:44 AM | 25 comments
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  • I get turned off by self acclaimed bears who turn out to be just as regimented and fake as the rest of the gay establishment it was once meant to oppose. I don't buy the fake macho crap: the cigars, the tattoos, the leather, the muscles, the attitude. Give me a real man who has realized the beauty of being himself anyday.
    Bbbbear 03/25/2011 06:58 PM
  • full of bs and never showing up for a meet, being stood up.
    singlelone 02/01/2011 05:05 PM
  • Cold indifference. Not just a turn-off, but scary.
    Hungbuddy 02/01/2011 03:37 PM
  • 4 choices are deff not enough!!
    fitforfun 02/01/2011 01:07 PM
  • When they call you fat when you meet them.
    knightkat 01/31/2011 12:29 AM
  • General lack of good manners is the most annoying. People who are rude also tend to be self-centered and inconsiderate of anyone but themselves
    BmoreFurBear 01/30/2011 10:11 PM
  • Too young.
    Nandoe6 01/30/2011 03:12 PM
  • I see most responses had the same Issue with only being able to pick 4 responses. All on the list I would check if possible. I dislike self impressed people that tell half truths or outright lies. Be yourself. Be proud of who and what you are. I am...
    DaleL 01/30/2011 07:41 AM
  • Druggies and Drunks are on the top of my list, therein lay most of the other listed problems!
    FURfinder 01/30/2011 01:09 AM
  • I had a hard time trying to limit myself to 4! So many would be a turn-off.
    juantaman 01/29/2011 01:49 PM
  • Any Two of them would be enough for me even one. If he exhibits even one on the first date imagine what in store down the road!
    lking4u 01/29/2011 01:39 PM
  • Prick teasers, and liars are my hate. All some guys want is a bit of cock... what happened to friendship, or getting to know a guy first off?
    hugzy 01/29/2011 11:58 AM
  • Lying should be number one. I think being lead on is one of the worst things. When you meet a guy for the first time and he tells you that you’re perfect for him. He builds up over time how much he cares about you, tells you that he loves you so completely and he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. And you fall for all of it. And you let him take your heart. Then you realize it was just lip service AND HE TELLS YOU he didn’t actually mean any of it…any of it! Then he drops you entirely from his life and you never get to see him or interact with him ever again. Some guys can be such liars, so cold and heartless and you don’t find out until it’s too late. But I’m not bitter…lol.
    RowdyIL 01/29/2011 11:18 AM
  • 1-He's already partnered 2-Too clingy right away 3-Looks at other guys in front of you and 4- for me is, that it's a hook-up and long as he gets his climax who cares about mine.
    budnbama 01/28/2011 11:42 PM
  • My four are: Poor hygene/ Bad Breath, Rude to waitresses, Constantly talking about himself. Sloppy drunk. I would have to add three more from the list: Too much cologne, Talking too much about his ex, and Negative attitude or combative. I would definitely agree with the non-listed comment about talking constantly on the cell phone. I would add from my own "list": sarcastic and with an edge.
    manjoguy 01/28/2011 07:16 PM
  • look at me!!!! name dropper, my car, my clothes, my home, my jewelery, my title, must be a Lala land thing!!!!!
    LuckyCub 01/28/2011 06:58 PM
  • How do you expect us to only pick 4?!? : - )
    bostonbearbutt 01/28/2011 06:43 PM
  • "bad breath and hygene should have been combined". Good idea, I didnt think of that. Done.
    Too late to add cell phones but I see most guys can't stand that lol.
    Marc 01/28/2011 06:06 PM
  • Yeah, I agree, all of the above!
    uncutdadf469 01/28/2011 04:31 PM
  • I say all the above.....1st off if he is are already partnered that's an immediate deal breaker! If I go to kiss him and he has bad breath, or opens his mouth and a purse falls out, Im done!
    SteveDadPdx 01/28/2011 01:27 PM
  • bad breath and hygene should have been combined and cell phone added. I HATE cell phones on a date
    tgabear 01/28/2011 01:11 PM
  • I wish I had more than 4 choices
    kelleysiland 01/28/2011 11:31 AM
  • A few of the above, but mostly lying. Aren't we mature enough to tell the truth?
    jozy32k 01/28/2011 09:58 AM
  • No respect or consideration in general, (people, places, property). It all counts.
    jondavid 01/28/2011 08:23 AM
  • liars
    howie 01/28/2011 06:07 AM