I dunno I think people are mostly friendly in the blogs here. I see people are posting jokes and asking for support and others are responding in a supportive way.
But I think it's just human nature that after a while people get more comfortable with a place and stop being polite and start being more real. Like fighting with your brother or sister.
As always if someone's feelings are hurt and wants something deleted let me know and I will delete it. And I'll delete anything I feel goes over the line.
I don't want anyone to be made to feel uncomfortable in my house, but some people enjoy a spirited political debate so I leave those alone. Its very hard to judge but I mostly leave things alone unless someone brings it to my attention.
But this will never turn into an extreme toxic section of the site, I'll remove it before that happens.
i'd hardly call any posts on here vivious. i see worse things on my isp's blog page. besides all of that, we're all adults here and capable of dealing in our own way. i'd hate to see the blog page be dragged down to inoffensive mediocrity just for the sake of being "nice".
I think this is one of the more civil sites. If you think only gay people are vicious and bitchy, try reading some of the comments on youtube or yahoo. Its all over.
This is why a friend of mine who used to be a long time member of this site has left and says he will never return. The nastiness is not only in the blogs but in the chat room too, which I avoid like the flu.
I have to second Quilt's message. If you can't stand the heat time to get out of the kitchen. One thing that has come out of all of this is that you better do your research about whatever you are talking about because there are some very well read and well expressed guys here which is great. One of the problems we have in the US is no one is having honest debates anymore but here we have some very good ones.
If there is something here that you don't like, then don't read it.
But I think it's just human nature that after a while people get more comfortable with a place and stop being polite and start being more real. Like fighting with your brother or sister.
As always if someone's feelings are hurt and wants something deleted let me know and I will delete it. And I'll delete anything I feel goes over the line.
I don't want anyone to be made to feel uncomfortable in my house, but some people enjoy a spirited political debate so I leave those alone. Its very hard to judge but I mostly leave things alone unless someone brings it to my attention.
But this will never turn into an extreme toxic section of the site, I'll remove it before that happens.