To prevent catfish, I only chat using voice/cam, normally on SKYPE. If you don't have SKYPE/Silver Daddies or AOL and will not download one of them, then DON'T contact ME.

WARNING WARNING WARNING Its a long Profile
This is my profile, it has been recently rewritten. It is who I am at a quick glance, how I feel, what I want and need. It's long by some standards and short by others, ever verbose. SO if you're just looking for cam, cyber or phone sex don't waste either of our time. If I IMed you and asked you to read it, and if you like/interested, then please answer back. If your not, I don't need you to tell me "sorry I am not your type". For some reason guys think it's polite to reject someone even after have asked them not to reply, if they are not interested.
If you don't like it, then IM not interested in your opinion, keep it to your self and move ON.
PLEASE READ: IF YOUR LOCATED OUTSIDE THE US, then it could be a waste of time, since I am looking for a LTR ultimately, however, you can still say HI(especially if distance isnt a stopper for you). But if you really ARE interested say hi anyway, ESPECIALLY if your from the UK, Ireland, Europe, Down Under, WOOF (IF your live in GHANA, Philippines/Indonesia, India, Pakistan, etc don't waste our time) As I am not paying for any one to fly here. nor do I see my self traveling there.
ONLINE
I am amazed about on line; damn I wish I had this when I was beginning my struggle. How it would have helped. I am also amazed how dishonest some guys are on here. How they will say anything to get what they want. This is a big draw back to online. If someone says they don't like something or are not into to RESPECT THEM.
And NO, not every one that comes on line is just after sex. Love has been found here, relationships that have lasted and are strong, beautiful things.

DRUGS/STATUS
I am not into ANY drugs other than alcohol, prescription and over the counter drugs, never have, never will. PNP/420 not my thing at all. If I can't take you there then I don't want to do it with some drug.
HIV. I am not opposed to a relationship with someone who is poz, provided they are honest and up front about it, at the very beginning

LOOKING FOR
I am looking for a LTR, Love (now that one usually sends guys running and screaming to the hills) and more. Damn, to go to sleep and wake up in the middle of the night and he is there, and the morning comes and I see his smiling face. To know the joy of building a life with him, loving him, making up with him and being there for each other. Yes there are risks to opening your heart to someone, but the rewards far out way the sadness of the heart. To do a take off of a Robert Frost poem, Two Paths, one lest traveled, that path is the relationship path. I can enjoy fun but I want much more than that. However, if fun is all u want I can do that as well, just be honest with that, upfront.

YOU
Read this profile, understand, appreciate, ask questions and respect it. Not all profiles are full of lies. Stoppers are stoppers whether they come up now or later.
Have a face pic, profile, able to chat on phone or on line with the first chat.
If you answer me back then I will take it you have read and agree with my profile and share similar things.
If you not sure, say hi and just be honest with what you want.

ME
I was born in Heidelberg Germany, 12 June 1954, a military Brat. A baby boomer grew up in a southern Baptist/holy roller back ground. I was taught the homosexuality was a sickness, etc etc. Taught the American Dream, house garage, car, wife, children, and dog. I played some as a kid and then married. After about 2 years the real me begin to come out. Then I realized I wanted the American Dream but with don and not Donna.
I am an old soul romantic. I love kissing holding cuddling spooning a lot. I like hot passionate love making or some form of play at least once a day
I usually like younger than me, honesty, trust, respect, commitment, good communicator, and who knows what he wants and goes for it. Romantic and all. To me the one item that binds all the rest together is COMMUNICATION, without it nothing works. And it starts with the very first chat.
I do believe in love at first site, long distance relationships, Santa Claus and God.
I'm 6 2, 300 lbs, bald, baby blue eyes, goatee, almost 7c about 5 thick single and looking to fix that.
I am a top, so I am not looking to be a bottom, in a LTR who knows, but I am not bottom material.
There is nothing greater in my book than the mutual love of another man, as a lover, partner, friend and more.

Not looking for: games, paying for sex, CYBER, cam/phone sex, to be your sugar daddy, cross dressers, pic traders

I am looking for guys who have accepted who they are and are comfortable with that. To all the virgins, get some experience, and then hit me up. To the Bi Guys, though I have been where you are, I am not interested in going there again.
Just in case you missed it the first time I said this: IF YOU DONT HAVE: a profile, a pic (or willing to talk on the phone, on the first chat, your wasting your TIME and MINE). If you looked at my pic and or cam, I expect the same courtesy, and I feel I can ask you anything I have told you about me.
Since I am looking for a LTR, if you're not located close to me, relocation must be an option, either for you or me. At the moment I am relocate able.

Screen name.
Bear is me physically. Dad, I am a real dad, have 2 sons; 24 and 33 and 2 granddaughters. Yes, they know I am gay and accept that. They also know the type men I like and except them as well.

LTR, Long Term Relationship, my ultimate goal and desire. That's what I am on here looking for, so you should be TOO. I do enjoy fun along the way, but it's not my sole motivation. Slim, I like slim, husky and muscular. Some belly is sexy but not much of one.


Leather
Being into leather doesn't mean IM not romantic, loving, caring and intimate; in fact it's that and more.
No one likes to be judged by what color your skin is, religion or what you wear.
For most of us leather is not about beatings, slavery, etc
Yes I am wearing a leather vest; I like the smell, feel of it. But please do not assume anything else. (Some have some strong ideas about slavery, beatings etc) Leather is a state of mind and heart, about mutual respect and tolerance, for whom and what someone is. So please don't think you have to be into leather to chat or meet me.
I often hear: "I am not into Leather", well u don't have to be. There are many things I am not into, but that if the other guy likes and is into it I can be:
Vanilla to kink, Dom and more but only if you like.
It's always about having safe sane fun where both get what they want and need, enjoy it. .
The perfect guy for me is one who is as comfortable on his knees as he is in my arms.

Travel
I love NYC, Philly, and Quebec, will visit, especially if you can host. I can not host.

Hobbies & Interests:
Camping, hiking, target shooting, fishing, walks, movies, theater, TV, racquetball and simple romantic times. Would love to

Pet Peeves, what I don't like
First thing you say to me is show me your cock.
When I look in your profile I see a headless torso, cock or ass. I often wonder is this the best thing about them?
Yes I know this profile is a bitch profile, but I'm done with the games some guys play on line
If you are Chatting on Silver Daddies Cam chat, this is a CAM program; I don't understand guys who don't have a cam, or at least a face pic. If you don't have either, then you're probably not going to get very far with me. I am looking for a face pic, if you don't have one in your profile, one of the first things I will ask for is a face pic, if you don't have one, or don't share it first, then don't wasn't either of our time, other wise it will be a very short chat.

Poems, quotes, etc
1. Its not who you go to bed with at night, but rather who you wake up with the next morning
2. Its better than to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all
3. Its better to be thought a fool, dummy, dumb butt, etc, and remain silent, than to speak up and remove all doubt
4. Opinions are like butt holes, everyone has one and some of them STINK.
5. To Thine Own Self Be True
6. The Dumbest question is the one you never ASK
7. Lead, follow, or get the hell out of the way

8. Its madness to hate all roses, cuz you got scratched by one thorn
To give up all your dreams, cuz one didn't come true
To lose faith in prayers, cuz one wasn't answered
To condemn all your friends, cuz one of them betrayed
Not to believe in love, cuz someone was unfaithful
Remember that....
Another chance....
May come up a new friend, a new love and a new life ...who know's
Never give up on anything.
But The Important thing is
{Sex For Life, NOT Life for Sex....}
.... salisuster .....