Lets value what we’ve done with each other in the past, chat about what we can do with each other in the future, and enjoy the creativity of it all with ourselves now.

⅔ the year in New York & ⅓ the year in Santa Fe
Both in Very Blue States

I am: Slim, Hairy Chested, Athletic, Mature, Imaginative, & Thoughtful. I’m not ‘just your average laid-back guy.’ I like my men to think well enough about themselves while not being self-possessed about it. I’m not into drama or those who are dramatically inclined not being so. I like being challenged by those who like being challenged.

Not interested in playing house... just playing the field... I'm very happily attached in an honest, respectful, and loving open relationship of 31 years. I’m now into Bikram, Yin & Vinyasa Yoga along with my usual running replacing the gym. It should keep me tight for the duration.

I'm not: inked, pierced, shaved, inhumane, or into scat, blood, tobacco, or hard drugs.
GGG (pos+)/ 420 (pos+)/ PnP (neg-)/ [HIV (neg-)/ STD (neg-) (as of 9/16/2022)] COVID & antibody (neg-) (as of 9/07/2022) COVID 19-5 Vax. MPX-2 Vax.
I: play safe*; like toys, leather, & role play; am inventive, and adaptable.

My 'furry friends' here @ DD are sharp man-to-man associates- not part of a social media collection. Some of these guys have become close, a few very close, then there is a short list of howling 'let-the-fur-fly play-mates' (Text2Text, Cam2Cam & Body2Body). The latter group is not needed on a list anymore. Please don’t ask to be my buddy if we have not chatted for a while. None of my guys are simple check-marks in a box. They have names, are literate, and are special both to me and to themselves.

Though not exclusively, I'm most interested in meeting guys 'like myself' in strong, loving, LTR (Long Term Relationships) where as a result of nature, not nurture, only sexual parts of the 'R' have changed over the 'LT.' I'm searching for FWB/FB (Friends With Benefits/Fuck Buddies) whom I will not be- nor will they be threats to each other's spousal commitments. I'm just wanting to feel a strong and wild wind in the sails regularly or from time to time.

Clear face pictures and a proof of literacy are a must. Being confident in who we are makes us all significant to ourselves as well as to others. I'm not interested in cheap ‘porn-sters,’ those who present themselves as just dick-heads and ass-holes. If you're not sexually creative between the ears- nothing between the legs really matters.

If you send a friendly and/or suggestive note, I'll do my best to reply ASAP.
If your note indicates real resourcefulness I'll try to answer sooner.
If you sign my guestbook I’ll get the hint you want to see my private PIX.

No Chicken Tenders Please... I Go For Lean, Well-Seasoned, Aged Prime Rib.

I’m not shy. If I contacted you it is because I found some interest in your profile and/or pictures. I am literate so unless your written requirements exclude my type I might write you… once. After that, it’s up to you. I will always respond respectfully… once… unless I too am interested in you back.

I do keep my standards which has resulted in me having my best friend at home and ever developing good FWBs outside.

<<Cover Picture: Upper West Side Manhattan Home February 6, 2020>>

*A Safe Player... There are no sometimes, non-appropriate times, there is nothing to discuss, and Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) does not prevent STDs- many of which no longer respond to antibiotics. Use a condom or use someone else. Creditable mature gay men must protect each other’s health, not be codependents to immature egos.