I have lived both out and closeted. I lived in the closet to protect my son's feeling. Now that I have no gay friends or acquaintances and everyone knows me as straight, I don't see any reason for coming out unless,I had,a partner that was important to.
I'm a masculine man who is financially secure. I'm intelligent, compassionate, empathetic, kind.. possess very good communication and conflict resolution skills and would be excited to meet people who are looking for more than a hookup. Friends are welcome. But can't we find more to talk about other than sex? I am usually attracted to men younger than myself. Men who are also masculine and kind. I am more interested in what's above your shoulders than what's below your waist. I'm a happy guy by nature.