I have been truly single (no hook ups or casual sex by choice) since 2013, and I want to find the right younger guy for two, three, thirteen dates, or more. I am genuine and sincere, and I'd like someone younger than I am who is only attracted and interested in men like me. I am intelligent, honest, funny, cultured, well traveled, non-religious,and a HUGE dog lover (no sex with animals, sorry to have to say that, but I have been asked too many times) and I am only attracted to and interested in younger guys who are attracted to and into older men, or DADDY types, like me. Similarly, I am only attracted to and interested in younger guys (25-35 years younger is most ideal for me, but I am open minded to a point) who are intelligent, honest, hopefully funny (or at least will laugh with me or at my jokes), cultured (or wants to learn more about culture), well traveled (or wants me to show him what I have seen and more), he is hopefully non-religious (or not very), and MUST love dogs!

Historically, I visit DC/Baltimore (where I was born and grew up), Montgomery, Alabama (where I own property and have friends), and California (where I have friends and there is so much beauty and culture) fairly often to very often, but unusually, I did not travel at all in 2014-2015, only the second time in the last 40 years when I did no traveling at all. I did travel a bit in 2016-2019, but I hope and expect to do more traveling in 2020 and beyond, although not likely returning to the levels of traveling (75,000-100,000 miles per year, and 75 nights or more per year in hotels) as I maintained while I was still working, before retirement.

I used to say that I DON'T DO WINKS! and that I won't wink at you, but if I find something about you interesting, but you don't have a face picture, or I can't figure out how to start a conversation with you, I MIGHT wink at you, but it is rare. I'd prefer an actual message with a few sentences, but If you do wink, PLEASE WINK RESPONSIBLY! Hopefully you can tell me something interesting about yourself, or ask me something interesting. Do you walk up to actual people, who you do not know, in public places, and overtly wink at or physically grope them? Winking is the online version of winking or groping a person you do not know, don't WE KNOW that by now?If your profile has no location listed, or if your face is not clearly seen in your picture, or if your profile doesn't tell me anything about you, then you are less likely to get a reply from me. If you have no location AND no clear face picture, AND no complete profile, then it is a sure thing you will not hear back from me!

I live in Fort Lauderdale, Florida about 2-3 miles from the beach in a large house (4 bedrooms/3 baths) with a fenced yard, in a nice, quiet neighborhood. I bought my current house in 2000, doing some needed updates in 2019/2020. I'd like to add a hottub, want to use it with me?

True masculine man here, not "straight ACTING," because I'm real. There's no need to act when a person is authentic. I'm just authentically masculine, I'm just myself. I'm real and genuine, and I'm looking for a younger guy/man/fella/son/boy/sub/____ (or whatever you refer to yourself as) who is the same, or who needs an older guy/man/fella/DAD/DOM/mentor/___ _ (or whoever you envision yourself being with, since I am very open minded and open hearted) to show him what might be and the world of the possible.-- While my preference here would definitely be for long term, I might stumble across him, and I might not, because fate works in funny ways. I am not like many gay men, where I will not fall in love with any/every good looking gym body or model type or ________ (fill in the blank) every 6 or 12 months.

-- I've been single for quite a long time, and I would not like to be single if I had a say in the matter. However, while I've been waiting for the "GODDESS OF GAY COUPLING" to come by my house, I don't lay a claim of being a celibate monk! Except for the last seven years, because I have chosen not to have casual or hook up sex since the end of my last relationship. Even before 2013, I was not a slut, although before then, I did play now and then, if only to keep from going out of my cotton pickin' mind! After my last relationship ended, I realized two important things, FIRST that I did not find casual sex fulfilling anymore, and SECOND, that casual sex was/is a HUGE DISTRACTION from finding what I really want and need, finding the right younger guy for real and long term. Get it? Got it? GOOD! ;-)

-- In my life I hope to meet that ONE younger guy like no other. I will be able to talk with him and never be bored, tell him anything and never be judged, a best friend, a boyfriend (or maybe even more!)......a true love.

(So no one who reads my profile will feel left out or offended, I am looking for the quality and character of the person, so please read "boi," "son," "sub," "partner," "younger," "boyfriend," "slave," "beta," etc. as being interchangeable for the purposes of this profile. I generally do not use the word "boy" to refer to guys I am interested in, since a "boy" is a child, and I am NOT INTERESTED IN CHILDREN IN ANY WAY! I prefer the alternative spelling of "boi" to indicate that I am attracted to younger guys who are legally adults).

Some guys seem to think that DADDY/boi or DAD/son relationships are somewhat perverse, and they are only interested in whatever they might consider a "traditional, old fashioned older/younger relationship," whatever that is, without the labels. If the label or the potential role play connotations bothers you, then we can be anything we want to be, it's up to us.)

-- I am definitely a genuine and sincere DOM TOP DADDY to my core, it is who I am, and being a DAD comes very naturally to me. I also tend to be DOMINANT, and I am ALWAYS appropriately sexually aggressive, and I am also very comfortable being dominant outside of the bedroom, though not required. I know that not all younger guys are into being sub outside of the bedroom, and that is okay, and/or certainly something we can discuss. Just because I am a DOM TOP does not mean that I am not also romantic! I am definitely romantic in many ways, small and large. I like to have sex, but I love to make love! Having sex and making love can take many forms, from gentle to rough, slow to fast, tender to passionate, quiet to very verbal, and vanilla to kinky. Yes, I am always TOP in the bedroom, no, I will never turn over, and YES, I PREFER TO BE DOM, but I am not always verbal, and I often like vanilla sex, romantic lovemaking, and I certainly do not always like kinky sex every day. Variety is the spice of life! There are a lot of younger guys who want a very DOMINANT DAD, and I am very cool with that, inside and outside the bedroom, inside and outside the house, but I am NOT interested in having a slave, and I am only interested in having a younger partner who works and/or goes to school, because I want to be engaged in a relationship with an active mind, and not a shut in with a mind slowly turning to mush! Ask me about this if you wish to discuss it, if you want clarification, or if you want to know more. It's all good, and it's all open for conversation! I try very hard not to be a judgmental DAD, and ask the same of you in return, on this and other subjects.

-- I'm masculine, successful, professional, a world traveler (I used to travel frequently and far for both business and pleasure), age 60 (as of May '20), a true silver "DADDY" type, total TOP, silver goatee, salt & pepper and all, but more importantly....honest, affectionate, romantic, intelligent, funny, loyal, and real. Maybe I will be showing too much frankness here, but I think that it is important, and I might as well, after all, at 60, I've been around the block more than a couple of times, and I've truly enjoyed most of the ride! So here goes...I'm tired of being stood up and lied to. I treat people with honesty and respect, I am a gentleman (at least in public, anyway, though sometimes it is better NOT to be a gentleman in private or the bedroom, grrrr!), and I expect the same in return. I am a non-smoker. I am TOP and I love to kiss passionately. Put my profile name together with what I said about myself, and you should know just what I am looking for in a younger guy. It is not just about you being hot! You need to have a brain, a heart, and a good soul too. Please be a non-smoker, and a non-drug user. Please notice that the age range that I am looking for in my profile is 18-38. While I may be A BIT flexible on 38, that certainly does not mean 41, but my ideal is 25-35 years younger than I am! For me, in my humble opinion, about anything which is "DADDY/boi" from dating to sex to relationship, age itself is not as important as AGE DIFFERENCE. Although I know it is not a choice for me to be a DADDY, it is just who/what I am, in large part, being a DADDY or a boi is more a state of mind than it is an actual age. I love the special dynamic which only exists between a DADDY and his boi (or DAD/son, or maybe even a truly special older man/younger guy who are committed to each other), but you need to have experienced it for yourself to truly understand that dynamic, but I can try to explain it if you ask me.So what are you waiting for, why haven't you written a message to me yet!?!?

-- Some of the most wonderful things about "THE SPECIAL DYNAMIC" between DADDY/boi or DAD/son or older/younger (or whatever you wish to call your inter-generational relationship) are the DIFFERENCES. I hope to find someone who has different interests. I love the old expression "opposites attract!" I am not interested in dating myself, or even a younger version of me!

-- I have many hobbies and interests. Among them are my dogs ("Dante" [March 1999~January 5, 2009 rest in peace]; "Nickel," [2004~June 2018 rest in peace]; "Murphy" [August 2008~March 2, 2015 rest in peace]; and my current "Blu," [2014-present]); travel, movies/TV old and new, art and museums, history, architecture, snow skiing, real friends, work, family, my Real Estate, and more (in no particular order).

--Before retiring due to disability (chronic genetic illness of the digestive system, I walk fine, there are other kinds of disability!), I owned several Real Estate related businesses, plus a Business Coaching and Consulting company. I was a workaholic in the Real Estate business for more than 25 years before I retired.

--I have toyed with writing a book about the toxic business and employment environments we have been in since at least 2008, and in many ways still continuing through 2020, especially considering the world's biggest a**h*** in the White House!

--I still own some Real Estate, but I also own over 200 Internet domain names, which I am interested in either selling or developing businesses for. Accordingly, I AM LOOKING FOR EXPERIENCED WEB DESIGNERS, WEB MASTERS, WEB DEVELOPERS, and/or INTERNET ENTREPRENEURS, and maybe investors. Ask me about possibly working or partnering together. You don't have to know about all of these things, or even be interested in all of them, but you should know or be interested in learning about some/most of them. I am not beyond learning from my younger partner, and if you have interests that I do not know about, I WILL WANT to learn about them from you.

-- I want lots of life in the boi who is the boi in my life.

-- For the POTENTIAL younger guy out there for me, if he exists, above all, I want to love you, and be your friend, and for you to love me and be my friend.

-- Do you want to find an older MAN who calls you BEAUTIFUL instead of hot, who calls you back when you just hung up on him, who thinks you are perfect even though he knows the worst thing about you, and who will stay awake just to watch you sleep? Have you been waiting for the older MAN who kisses your forehead, and not just your lips, who plays with your hair, and who often reminds you of how lucky he is to have you in his life? In your dreams, is he the older MAN who holds your hand in front of his friends...and then turns to them and silently mouths "THAT'S HIM!" ?

PS. My dry and somewhat bizarre sense of humor leads me to ask this odd question.........................Why is it that so many bottoms show ONLY pictures of their penises in their profiles and so many TOPS show ONLY pictures of their butts in their profiles? Are they really and truly trying to send us a secret or subconscious message?

*****Note - Since I seem to be getting an undue amount of attention from younger men in The Philippines especially, but SE Asia and Africa generally, I am sorry to say that messages from The Philippines, SE Asia, and Africa (possibly excepting Thailand because I have been there so many times and love it there) will only receive the automated "Thank you but I am looking for someone closer" replies. I have no intention to visit these areas in the next three years, and do not wish to develop a relationship that is exclusively online. Good luck to all.*****