To begin with, I am REALLY looking for a relationship. Dating is one avenue to get there. Friends is another, I'd say. As for sex, I am not looking for just a sex hook-up. That's why I didn't specify the top-bottom stuff. I think it is silly for someone my age. And I don't require the other man to be one specific thing or the other. If you have an interest in me via my profile here but have sex only in mind just skip to someone else. At my age I've had countless sexual liaisons. Most of them I don't remember. (I do remember the very first one!!). Here in Sacramento, the fellow comes over, we have the sex, then he gets dressed quickly and leaves usually without saying a word. If you have a different attitude we can talk. I am a mostly retired attorney, can travel anywhere, live anywhere. We can discuss cultural and other interests. So, if all this appeals to you then respond!!